Saying Goodbye Is Hard

My Best Friend, Raja

I’ve had many animals throughout my life, but none have left an imprint on my heart quite like Raja. She wasn’t just a pet—she was my best friend, my emotional support, and a constant companion.

Raja wasn’t a stray, a shelter cat, or a rescue with a tragic backstory. Her story was unique. She came from a litter of kittens my grandmother’s cat had when I was about six years old. At that age, I was already in love with animals, but when I laid eyes on Raja, I knew I had to have her.

Convincing my mom wasn’t easy, but I finally won her over. That decision changed my life in ways I couldn’t have imagined.

Over the years, I had my fair share of pets: fish and even a bunny named Thumper. But Raja was different. She stayed. She grew up with me, and I grew up with her.

As a kitten, she was my playmate. As a young cat, she became a mother herself, having several litters of kittens until we decided it was time to let her retire from motherhood. Through all of it, she was mine, and I was hers.

For 16 incredible years, Raja was there through every phase of my life. She watched me grow from a clumsy little girl to a young woman. She was with me through the highs and lows, offering comfort and companionship in a way only she could.

She wasn’t perfect, and there were times she got on my nerves. But there were also countless moments when she was the most comforting presence in my life—curled up on my bed, purring softly, as if to say, “I’m here.”

In 2021, we had to say goodbye to Raja. She lived a long, full life, and I’m grateful for every moment we shared. Her passing came as I was starting my college journey, a bittersweet transition that felt like the end of an era.

Raja wasn’t just my cat—she was my family. She saw me through childhood scrapes and bruises, the awkwardness of growing up, and even the emotional pain of adulthood. She was there when I felt lost, stressed, or sad, always offering silent support that spoke louder than words ever could.

She taught me so much about love, loyalty, and the joy of connection. Even now, I feel her presence in my life, her memory a source of comfort and warmth. Raja wasn’t just my favorite animal—she was a part of me.

To my sweet Raja: thank you for being my best friend. I’ll carry your love with me always.